Upper School Success Stories
Success Story: Eileen Leach
Written in Fall 2015
Eileen Leach is a sophomore from Groton, MA. She lives with her parents and younger sister who attends 8th grade at Groton Country Day School where Eileen also attended before starting at the Academy her freshman year (2014-15).
She first became aware of the Academy through her parents who wanted to find another private school for Eileen's high school years. Her mother, Geraldine, is from Ireland and she attended an all-girls Catholic school herself. She says what Eileen is getting at the Academy is a continuation of what she had at her elementary school and what she has at home. "We were looking for a school that would instill Christian beliefs in an academically challenging and nurturing environment that provided opportunities for community service. We found it all here at the Academy."
Eileen graduated from the Country Day School in Groton, where she had been a student for 10 years. Shy by nature, she became increasingly confident both academically and socially with each passing year during elementary school. Although she had many friends at Country Day, she was particularly close to one friend whom she had known since pre-K. They were a perfect match – and a great comfort to each other in and out of school. As the new school year approached, Eileen had a lot on her mind. She was leaving the familiarity of Country Day School behind, and worst of all, her best friend of 10 years was attending another school. The first few days and weeks of school were difficult. She had trouble settling into the new routine. She missed her best friend, and saw no prospects of developing a similar friendship among her new classmates. Her parents told her to give it time, and eventually she would make new friends.
Her social break-through came when her parents encouraged her to get involved in an athletic activity. Eileen had not participated in any organized athletics while at Country Day School, and although running was new to her, she chose cross country because she thought it would suit her best. She found running very difficult at first. She could not run as fast as the other girls, which was discouraging and added to her self-doubts. But the other girls would have none of it. When she first started on the team, her teammates went out of their way to include her and encourage her even when she was often the last to finish. Many of them shared stories of their own shyness and difficulty making friends when they were a freshman and this created a bond between teammates that Eileen cherishes. She runs all year now, participating in cross country in the fall, indoor track in the winter, and outdoor track and field in the spring. Although she hasn't become the star runner, she has improved greatly since her freshman year. She attributes her improvement as a runner and her growing social confidence to the friendships she has forged with her teammates.
"I had trouble believing school would get better when I first started as a freshman, but now I’m really happy. I want to do well academically and to keep running. I feel like I really fit in at NDA, and my cross country teammates had a lot to do with that. I joined the 1804 Society and help out at Open Houses. Now, I encourage others to come here."
"I can't even tell you how pivotal the cross country coach and team were for Eileen," says Geraldine. “Coach Vail was so encouraging and never gave up on her. The girls were her support structure, especially the older girls who were her mentors and got her involved. Her father and I have seen huge changes in her in the past year. Her self confidence has grown and she's happy, very happy."
In addition to her cross country experience, Geraldine says support came from the teachers as well. "The faculty here is so supportive. They recognized that she was struggling socially, and very quickly got to know her as a person both academically and personally. The academics are so strong. There is no doubt that she is getting a great preparation for college, but I think too that the Academy puts a great emphasis on going out into the world too."
"My advice to girls who have trouble making friends is to get involved and to recognize that even though you may not realize it, other girls probably are feeling just as awkward and shy as you. And they need to know that things will get better."
Eileen says that being at an all girl‘s high school is not as big a deal as some people think. "I know a lot of girls don't like the no boys thing, but honestly, it doesn’t even enter my mind." Her mother agrees saying, "The all-girls environment has been wonderful. Eileen is enjoying the companionship, without the pressure and distractions of a co-ed school."
Eileen still considers herself shy, but she recognizes that she is not as shy as she once was and that her confidence continues to grow. Recently at an Open House, Principal Helen Kay put Eileen on the spot in front of a small group and asked her to share how NDA has affected her. "I was able to rise to the occasion and answer the question that I wouldn't have been able to do a year ago. I feel more confident and I talk to more people now both in and out of class. I'm also trying new things."
Eileen feels that the Academy is molding her into a better version of herself and helping her to reach her potential. Her experience at the Academy has been so positive that her younger sister, Nora, has decided to come here too starting as a freshman next year. Nora will shadow Eileen at an upcoming Shadow Day. Eileen says that it was a Shadow Day experience that sealed the deal for her, "That's when I realized this is the place for me."
The Academy of Notre Dame holds Shadow Days for prospective Upper School students on Tuesdays now through mid-December. To schedule a Shadow Day, visit www.ndatyngsboro.org/admissions, email email@example.com, or call 978-649-7611, Ext. 327.